Most partners after the wedding day are faithful for some time. Some time passes and a husband realizes that he wants another lady in bed. At the same time he keeps on loving his beloved wife. And then a question arises - is it real love or not? A psychologist Plzak has described two main critical periods in family life.
The first one takes place between the third and the seventh year of co-operative living. It is this very period when a man has some other loving affairs. But what happens? You are not interested in your wife as a sexual partner any more. They are not used to the demerits of each other and are still dreaming of improving them. Family life has destroyed all romantic moments of your passionate love. You have got your role and nothing interesting happens. It is the period when children appear in the family and the wife does not pay enough attention to the husband. The divorce will be your biggest mistake in this case.
The second period is after 18-25 years of marriage when a wife is not so young and beautiful as she used to be and there are so many young attractive ladies around! The crisis is even bigger as partners have not got that energy to struggle for their happiness. They are not young any more and to feel young they try to have young lovers. So many partners prefer to be blind and not to see that.
So many differences in the relationship before marriage proposals and after them!