It is not necessary to think, that in a marriage the happiness comes itself. The female share in the creation of strong relations is very important. Your "weapon" is tenderness, diplomacy, ability to understand another person. To be convinced, how good your marriage is, answer "yes" or "No" the questions of the test developed by the French psychologists.
1. Are you irritated if your husband is sick?
2. Do you care lees about him than before marriage?
3. Do you frequently quarrel because of money?
4. Do you care less about your appearance than before marriage?
5. Can you accept the criticism of the husband?
6. Do you think that you pay enough attention to the husband's problems?
7. Do you frequently tell jokes to the husband?
8. Do you think that if you were single your life could be more pleasant?
9. Do you meet friends more often than one year ago?
10. Is it hard for you to say tender words to your husband?
11. Are there more that 3 qualities that irritate you in your husband?
12. Are you always angry if you discus some things with your husband that irritate you?
13. If you could marry once again, would you choose the same person?
14. Do you use sex as a weapon against your husband?
15. Are you irritated if you husband keeps silence with no reason?
16. Do you frequently compare your husband to your father?
17. Do you like to provoke jealousy in the spouse?
18. Do you check pockets of your husband, his wallet, letters?
19. Do you like to tell him what marriage proposals you refused?
20. Do his friends irritate you?
Every "Yes" brings 5 points.
80-100 points. Your family is in the big danger. It is necessary to undertake decisive steps while she has not broken up yet. As more questions are addressed to the woman, you seriously and if not in condition to supervise the feelings should reflect to consult to friends or better still, with the expert in the field of family relations.
55-75 points. The biggest enemy is you. Try to draw attention of the spouse even if it is necessary to pretend. Let it become your habit and, maybe, will freshen your marriage.
30-35 points. Your family is as an "average beauty". And for you is favorable to reduce quantity of stumbling-blocks in relations because at one more two positive answers danger to a marriage would be very close. Are convinced, that you are able to do it.
0-25 points. You have a good family. My congratulations! And those ones who have zero as a result know for sure what a true family happiness is!