The situation of becoming acquainted with a future husband looks this way: brides and grooms exchange their photos and letters using the service of a marriage agency, then the groom makes a voyage to the Russian Federation where he meets many single women wanting to marry someone. The groom is usually well dressed, smells good and speaks English (Russian women speak English not very often). That is enough for lonely impressive women. Then he chooses someone and sometimes marry her.
But is it possible to rely on your first impression if you want to marry a good man? Of course not. Psychologists advise to pay attention to every detail during your first meeting. Are there any signs of aggressiveness, maybe he accuses somebody in his misfortunes: his parents or friends; if he boasts himself. Analyze this attentively: it's a bad sign, if he is unhappy himself; there is no chance for him to make you happy.
A woman should love herself and not to ignore her own feelings. If she doesn't feel comfortably with him, if she can't relax: he is not her beloved.
If she decided to marry a man, it's necessary not to be in a hurry, not to sell the flat and change the citizenship.
If you live together, don't get children during the first year of your marriage. In the case of the divorce the court won't let you to take your child back to Russia.
And the last advice: if you are ready to become a mail order bride and go abroad, please, begin to study the English language and get the driving license, it will ease your life abroad.
Don't forget that everything depends on the agency you are served, so try to find the experienced and professional one to make your life happy.