They take for granted that all Russian ladies are very kind and open-hearted. It's rather difficult to explain to foreign men that they shouldn't treat every potential mail order bride in the same way. You know, just like we have some stereotypes speaking about foreigners, they have the same stereotypes speaking about us, Russians.
Suppose, you have decided to search for husband abroad and it doesn't really matter what prompted you to make such a decision. So you become a mail order bride. First of all you should pay special attention to the way you describe yourself. Certainly, men always remain men - first of all they pay attention to appearance, but the real reason why they pay special attention to Russian ladies is their emotional qualities.
Russian ladies are unconditional leaders of the market of mail order brides: first of all, they are white. Then most of them have a good education, the thing that Western people value greatly, much more than in Russia. (Let's say, my husband is constantly boasting that I have a degree of the master in philosophy - a fact that I have always tried to keep back here in Russia).
To have a higher education and it is very prestigious, irrespective of the field of knowledge. All foreign men whom I talked to, certainly accept, that Russian people are very smart.
So if you have decided to become a mail order bride and to join either a marriage agency or some website, you should take some very important things into account. First of all let's discuss the way you should describe yourself. This is very important if you wish to produce a very good impression on your partner. We don't recommend you to tell lies or to invent anything as if you cheat him, it'll be very difficult for him to believe that his mail order bride can be sincere and open-hearted.